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Note for those born less than fifty years ago — In “The Sixties”, one of the great arguments was between the Politicals and the Life-Stylers, whether to smash the system or simply to walk away from itIn 1968, there was this Bohemian writer visiting New York. Not bohemian as in chosen lifestyle, but from Bohemia. When he went home, he brought a stack of the latest records, groups like The Velvet Underground and The Mothers of Invention. Then the Russian tanks rolled in . . . Not long after, some eccentrics decided to become a rock and roll band. (talk about timing!) Being influenced by those very records, they named themselves The Plastic People of the Universe. Their performances were genuine underground events, in abandoned factories and the like. In time, of course, a couple of them were sent to prison. East Europe taking its artists much more seriously than "America" does, there was agitation to let them out. Eventually, the efforts succeeded, and then the people involved said to themselves, now what? And originated "Charter 77", the premier human rights organization of East Europe in the'80's. Then came the Velvet Revolution. The (then) Czechoslovakians were very proud that not a single life was lost in their ridding themselves of the Russians. That same writer wrote the Russians politely asking them to leave, and they did!! So he was elected President. Václav Havel made Frank Zappa "Special Ambassador to the West on Trade, Culture and Tourism", and when he visited the United States as the first freely elected President of Czechoslovakia in half a century, he kept a day open in his schedule to hang with Lou Reed. So it was Frank Zappa and Lou Reed who overthrew of “Communism” after all.
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My sexual self-image is "vanilla het", which leaves quite a wide gap between what I'm inclined toward and what I might object to. I've never made a systematic survey, but I have friends and acquaintances of a wide range of preferences/tastes.
Famously, there are categories of situation where prior negotiation is a Best Practice. It occurred to me that the more unusual a preference, the more negotiation. So, roughly, the odder the taste (statistically), the more exactly the person knows what they've gotten themselves in for . . . So the further out of the statistical mainstream, the fuller and more explicit the discussion, and the less the surprising incompatibilities or expectations.
Is that a rough rule of thumb? Is it something well-known other places, and I'm re-inventing a wheel rack Procrustean bed?
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This post has been composed and sitting in my memory for a couple of weeks. I'm doing ok this winter, not extra depressed enough to notice, but I checked the excessively finicky sunrise-sunset-day length website in my bookmarks, and between February 1 and February 28, daylight increases by 70 minutes. Over an hour. So I was all set to say, We've made it through the dark. The cold isn't over yet, but we have made it through the dark.
Which is still true, though the context has changed. Chicago has mostly come out ahead on climate change. It got cold earlier than usual this year, but aside from that, the winter has not been remarkable to natives. Until yesterday, of course. It's unusual to hear thunder in a blizzard. Chicago's max snow seems to be a little more than 20″. This one just edged out the previous third place ever by less than an inch.
The not-downside was a full two days warning. The difference it makes is enormous. The real downside was the wind. Tuesday evening, I was worried about stepping onto a patch of ice on the sidewalk, and sailing away. At least one person seems to have been blown into the lake, though what he was doing out there close enough for it to happen I co not know.
. . . and the radio just said "6°".
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